LOL. I love this question. I struggled with setting boundaries for most of my life- here’s what I think will help you.

Would you rather be an “as*hole” to someone else… or to yourself?

Because if you don’t set boundaries then who are you really screwing over?
🫵 Yourself.

And who do you have to live with for the rest of your life?
🫵 Yourself.

Do you see my point?

So go for it. Be the as*hole.

But remember this:
Telling people how to treat you with respect is not an asshole move-
it’s self respect.

And if you want others to respect you, then you have to respect yourself first 😉